Does he only want sex? 30 signs a guy just wants to sleep with you
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However, there seems to be something missing and it’s not quite going in the direction (or at the speed) you want it to.
If you’re getting mixed signals, wondering if he likes you or if he just wants sex, we’ve got the following signs for you to look out for…
Speak to a certified relationship counselor about this issue. Why? Because they have the training and experience to help you decide what to do about a guy who only wants sex. You may want to try speaking to someone via RelationshipHero for practical advice that is tailored to your exact circumstances.
1. You only see each other on his terms.
If you’re with a guy who only wants to have sex with you, you might notice that you only ever spend time together on his terms.
Maybe he only texts you when he’s been drinking and wants a booty call, or only wants to see you when he wants to sleep together.
If he liked you, he would make time to see you on your terms too – you wouldn’t just feel like a convenient option for him when he’s feeling frisky.
2. He only calls you in the evenings.
This is probably because he only wants to see you to hook up, and isn’t really interested in pursuing a serious relationship with you.
Again, this might happen when he’s had a few drinks or is feeling lonely – or in the mood for something else.
If he liked you, he would arrange to see you in the daytime and make you feel like part of his life, not just part of his nights.
3. You never hang out in the daytime.
He probably knows that you might think things are more serious if you do cute coupley things, so he’s keeping it casual by avoiding daytime activities that could be misconstrued.
If he liked you, he would be excited to spend time with you doing fun, coupley things, rather than only seeing you in the evenings.
4. You’ve not met any of his friends.
You might not have met any of his friends, or he might be trying very hard to keep you distant from what he gets up to outside of seeing you.
If he doesn’t even talk about the other important people in his life, he probably thinks it’s information you’ll never need to know since he’s not planning on a serious relationship with you.
If he liked you, he would make an effort to introduce you to his friends and want you to feel included in his plans.
5. He doesn’t want to meet your friends.
As much as he doesn’t want you to get to know his friends, he’s actively avoiding meeting any of yours either.
He may worry that your friends will sense the lack of commitment or seriousness and tell you to dump him.
If he’s happy with the current casual sex arrangement (even if you’re not aware that’s what it is), he’ll steer clear of your besties.
If he liked you, he’d be keen to meet your friends and make a good impression on them so that they supported your relationship.
6. His compliments are based on your appearance.
It’s great to be with someone who makes Indo Aqui you feel good about yourself, but you might have noticed that most of his compliments are focused on how you look.