These will all be questions you will come across sometime in the dating process
- Phone Number (of anyone you care about)
- Mother’s Maiden Name
- Children or Grandchildren’s Names
- Social Security Number
Are you looking for a life partner? Are you willing to relocate and what does that mean for your family?
Now that you’re a little more comfortable with the idea of dating and your family is too, think about the future
Be patient about meeting someone. If they are genuine they will have similar concerns about you being genuine too. If the person is pushy about meeting you too soon this is not a good sign. Move on, even if you’re developing feelings. Easier to cut loose now than when it’s too late.” You can find all of Kathy’s advice at senior-dating.org
Online dating is filled with difficult way to decipher how someone feels about you by adding things such as winks, this is an easy way to say to another person that you are interested them without any pressure or commitment and of course no obligation to message you or wink back at you.
Always remember that you’re not the only person who might be learning to online date, so if someone doesn’t get back to you or it takes them a while to get back to you, don’t take it personal. They may not be interested, didn’t notice your message or wink, have little internet access, are shy, or generally don’t know what they are doing.
Messaging another person. Remember to take it slow, ask them about their additional interests other than what is said on their profile, of course read their profile first. If you agree to meet in person, remember to find a safe public location. Always notify someone you are close to as to where you are going. If you have a cell phone, remember to bring it with you just in case.
Meeting in person. It’s so exciting when you finally meet someone in person. Beware that a profile is often the reflection of what a person wants to be rather than who they really are (or what the writer thinks the person is), meeting them in person will help you discover that inner self. Remember to keep an open mind and that you’re discovering more about this person every time you interact with them. Maybe jot down some notes about things to talk about and questions to ask. The more you date the easier it will become, especially if you’ve been out of the scene for a while.
Deciding to Stop Communicating. Remember the golden rule, do unto others. If you decide that you no longer want to communicate with a person, for whatever reason (discovering you aren’t ready to date, just don’t see eye to eye with them, found the love of your life, etc), remember to be respectful and tell them that you no longer wish to communicate so they aren’t wondering what happened to you. If you decide to give a brief reason why, remember to make it brief, giving too many details may confuse the situation. Remember that’s it’s okay to not like someone or just want to be their friend. Understand that this may happen to you as well. Things don’t always work out with everyone all the time but when it does the magic is worth all the heart ache.
Kathy Damer from a Blog Resource findbride mobiili for Senior Dating says, “Take it slow
Falling in love. Remember to talk to a lawyer before you pop the question. Remember that when you get married your estate doesn’t necessarily get inherited by your spouse and your children’s inheritance isn’t always secure. Don’t take any of this for granted. You can find a lawyer in your state on our website: or