Candid confessions on what crosses the line of fidelity-and what can be discounted.

It’s true: Men and women see infidelity differently. Scientists literally studied the phenomenon-grey areas and all. She might agree that either one of you having sex with someone else constitutes cheating. That’s a hard and fast no-no in a monogomous relationship. But how about the things you don’t consider cheating?

Does she agree flirting with the hot girl in your yoga class is no big deal? How about if you talk to another woman, daily, about your struggles at work and in your family life? Or, sending pics and direct-messaging on Snapchat? Not so simple, huh?

We asked 20 women to dilvulge, with absolute honesty-no inhibitions-what counts as cheating? Their answers (on what does and doesn’t count) should clear things up for you. And if you’re still unsure, talk to your girlfriend. There are some must-have conversations that, while uncomfortable, need to happen to strengthen your relationship.

We Asked 20 Women: What’s your least favorite sex .

“Well, obviously the physical stuff. But I think if you’re looking to people beyond your significant other to meet your emotional needs, in ways that you can’t share with him/her, that’s probably even more damaging. Basically, anything you feel like you have to keep secret is probably not a good look!” – Maize B.

“Anything you feel like you have to keep a secret from him/her is cheating, regardless of whether it’s physical or emotional.” – Eliza J.

“I think you can emotionally cheat, but it would have to be enough that if your significant other knew, they’d break up with you over it.” – Cassandra S.

We Asked 20 Women: How many sexual partners is too.

“I think any type of relationship you have to keep a secret is cheating. Weiterlesen